1. Print out the following three items:
Values
survey: What I want out of life
Values
survey: Personal characteristics I consider important
Happiness
questionnaire: Sources of life satisfaction
2. Do and bring to class but do not turn in: Fill out
each of the above items according to the instructions. Bring them to class
to be used in group discussion.
NOTE 1: these will be used for group discussion. I will want to know
that you filled them out, but you will NOT be asked to turn them in
and you do NOT need to share anything you do not want to share with
others. These will be confidential and for you alone. It will be most
useful for you if you try to fill them out as honestly as possible.
NOTE 2 (on the use of these questionnaires and surveys): You may want
to use more than one copy of these so you can give one to a friend,
spouse, or partner. They can be used in several ways:
- rate your values as stated on the surveys.
- have someone else rate you and compare what they think about you to
what you think about yourself.
- make two columns. In the first one rate your stated values, and in
the second rate your actual behavior. (For example: you might rate “being
calm” as very important in theory, but not something you do well
in practice.) Then look back and see the items with the greatest discrepancy
between theory and reality.
- Circle and think about the values and characteristics that have changed
most for you in the past few years, or that you expect might change
for you in the future.
3. Do and bring to class and turn in for this assignment:
After completing the surveys and thinking about them, write your answers
to the following three questions. Be brief: the purpose of this it to
get you thinking and to have you share just some central conclusions with
me. You will submit this one item as your written homework, so only write
what you want to share. (This homework will be submitted directly to me,
not to the TA.) Please use your code name.
Title: Thoughts on happiness and life satisfaction
1. Look at the “What I want out of Life" survey and the
"Personal Characteristics” survey. List a few items (2-3)
that have changed for you over the past few years, and write a very
brief statement about how each one changed (e.g. more important now,
less important now, etc.). You can use the surveys to trigger your thinking,
but you do not need to limit yourself to the items on the surveys.
2. Consider areas where your ideal self differs from your real self
(i.e., your stated priorities differ from your actual behavior). Describe
each in a sentence. (For example: I say it is a priority for me to read
historical novels; actually I hardly ever read historical novels.) Again,
you can use the surveys to trigger your thinking, but you do not need
to limit yourself to the items on the surveys.
3. After you have completed the happiness questionnaire, answer the
following questions: What thoughts do you have about the things that
are important or necessary for personal happiness? Do you have any new
insights or realizations as a result of this exercise?
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